Un-needy pheromone users

There’s a reason why I don’t discuss e-mail in this chapter: because you shouldn’t use it. If you’re going to seal the deal, you’ve got to get him on the phone to talk about his pheromone usage. The objective is to meet up again as soon as possible. The more time passes, the harder it will be to get a date and the less interested he will be in continuing the interaction. That said, you have to be completely and totally un-needy pheromone users. You do this by controlling the timing of your texts and calls, leaving super-short voicemail messages, giving a little Innuendo in your texts, and structuring your phone calls. Learn more at https://jail6letter.wordpress.com/2014/12/21/how-shifting-hormone-levels-affect-relationships/ and http://michaelspheros.blogspot.com/2015/03/with-or-without-pheromones.html

But before you do ANY of that, you’re going to do your research on this guy. Get online and check his Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn pages for discrepancies or mutual friends. I’m not suggesting that you do a full background check, but anything he told you, like his college years, his job, the name of his baseball team, anything that can be verified, just Google it and see if he’s listed as a graduate, has a photo on the company website, a picture of him swinging a bat—again, you’re looking for congruence. Did what he said match up to what you can find? Type in his phone number and see if anything strange comes up. Type in his name and keywords such as “arrest,” “felon,” “criminal,” “abusive,” “violent,” “dick,” “marriage license,” or “married to” and see if the combination of things gives you any new hits. Pheromone attraction is of the emotional content of a text. Sarcasm and teasing sometimes come across as actual anger. So smileys are okay. Just don’t use them every time you toss out a Tease. The best time to do this is at a conversational high point for both of you or right after the guy has texted you something sexual. The lack of response makes the guy wonder whether he did something wrong or if you are just busy. Dead Air keeps you in his mind for a long time after the texting takes a break. It can also be used to punish behavior. Because you’re no longer in person, you often can’t effectively use Sass to deliver a playful Takeaway. In a text, it can come off harshly, causing him to respond defensively, and then the cycle gets heated until neither of you ever want to see each other again. You want assurances that this guy has male and female friends, a job, hobbies, a life, and that he doesn’t live in his mom’s basement. If his pages are unlocked, read some of the comments that his friends post—if they’re all teasing him about being fucked up in every post, you may want to steer clear. If there seem to be repetitive photos of one particular woman in his albums, you may want to look her up to see if she lists her status as single or if she considers this guy her boyfriend . . . or worse, her husband! As for making contact the next day, I still expect the guy to make the first move. If you don’t hear from him in the first three days, he’s playing games with you instead of actually trying to make a connection. Learn more at http://pomm79.moonfruit.com/blog/4588864419/Meet-The-Phermones/9573173